Random Experience...

Hey all! It's Friday, hope everyone is enjoying their day. The weather here in the A is sure setting a hot and steamy tone! Well, this post is about a random experience I have come across and would love to express.

Men!

Where to start? I hope this post does not cause much controversy, or negativity, but here are my honest and true thoughts.

Those of you who know me, know my lifestyle, and know what I've encountered, experienced, enjoyed and decided. I am happily engaged to a beautiful woman whom I am happy to share my life with. With that, when men try to speak to me, I'm not sure if I'm too mean...or simply not interested. You tell me!

1st Guy.

I'm on my way to the Coffee Shop to get some writing done, handle some paperwork, pay some bills, and as I walk in the hot sun, these are the things my mind is focused on. Okay, boom, I smile, and come across a guy, didn’t get his name; didn’t really care. But I'll name him...James. We nod at one another and keep on going. He then calls me back and asks me "Do you work in the stores around here?" I answer "I don’t." He says "What do you do?" I reply, "I'm a writer for a local newspaper." He then states he has two construction companies and is looking for an assistant. I say "Cool, sounds good to me." He then asks me "If you could have one thing in the world to come to you today, what would it be." I wasn’t sure. He then says "Well, I'd like to spend some time with you today." I say, "Well I'm not sure if my fiancé would like that." He says "You're right. Have a great day," and walks away. I say "Thanks, I don’t like men anyway." <-----Was I wrong? He then says "Well one 'brung' you into this world" and continues to ramble, but we eventually walked away from one another. He was upset because I did not want to spend time with him. Why? I was really not interested.

Moving on...

2nd Guy.
I get to the Coffee Shop, and the crowd is a little different. I get my drink, set up my laptop, and sit down. My hunny calls me, we're talking, laughing, I'm smiling. He then comes up to my table and asks in a very southern and hood accent, "Do you mind if I sit here?" Of course he thought I was going to say no, but I said "Yes, I do mind." <-------Was I too mean? I was not intending to be mean, I just wanted my own seat, I was on the phone, and I really did not want to speak to him. When I eventually got off the phone, he came back, and said "I'm sorry I just wanted to holla at you." I said "What do you want to holler at me about?" He said "Noting specific. Who were you on the phone with?" <-----*What? I replied "My fiancé". He then left.

Was I too mean? I'm not sure. But men are just not my taste. We can be friends, but no, not for me. I just wanted to share these two random experiences because...why? Why cant I just be left alone?

Not sure.
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Until next time,
Nye.